Jarrid Wilson is a husband, cleric, writer, and
blogger. Also he has an admission that has everybody talking of late. You'll
see why underneath.
“I have a confession to make. I’m
dating someone even though I’m married.
She’s an incredible girl. She’s beautiful, smart, cunning, strong, and
has an immensely strong faith in God. I love to take her out to dinner, movies,
local shows, and always tell her how beautiful she is. I can’t remember the
last time I was mad at her for longer than five minutes, and her smile always
seems to brighten up my day no matter the circumstances.
Sometimes she will visit me at work unannounced, make me an incredible
lunch, or even surprise me with something she personally baked. I can’t believe
how lucky I am to be dating someone even though I am married. I encourage you
to try it and see what it can do for your life.
Oh! Did I mention the woman I am dating is my wife? What did you expect?
Just because you’re married, doesn’t mean your dating life should end.
I need to continue to date my wife even after I marry her. Pursuing my
wife shouldn’t stop just because we both said, “I do.” Way too many times do I
see relationships stop growing because people stop taking the initiative to
pursue one another.
Dating is a time where you get to learn about someone in a special and
unique way. Why would you want that to ever stop? It shouldn’t. Those
butterflies you got on the first date shouldn’t stop just because the years
have passed. Wake up each day and pursue your spouse as if you are still on
your first few dates. You will see a drastic change for the better in your
relationship.
When it comes to any relationship, communication and the action of
constant pursuit is key. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn’t want to
pursue them whole-heartedly.
I encourage you to date your spouse, pursue them whole-heartedly, and
understand that dating shouldn’t end just because you said, “I do.”
- Jarrid Wilson”
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